Grilling is his forte. Three years into solo parenting this extraordinary father has reached some conclusions: “Parents try to do too much. On your next view you will be asked to log in to your subscriber account or create an account and subscribepurchase a subscription to continue reading. For any problems, call our customer service number at 910-693-2487 or 693-2488. “She died in my arms,” in July, 2013, Phil says, unable to hold back tears. A more comprehensive investigation found Stage 4 breast cancer metastasized to chest and bones. The most important lesson I brought with me from the military was the ability to remain calm during stressful situations and to leverage anxiety into productivity. We hope that you enjoy our free content. 3. Col. Scott Pence is from Columbus, Ohio, and received his commission as an Armor officer from the University of Michigan ROTC program. Phil and Genevieve had discussed keeping the girls stable. Since then, Lt. Col. Phillip Sounia has rearranged his life and redirected a formidable Army career to single-parent Ava and Elise. I wish I knew more about the military and summer programs associated with UNC and Duke University. Public domain photograph from defenseimagery.mil. Church and school acquaintances pitched in with errands, food and activities for the girls. Phil takes the children to church on Sunday followed by a visit to the cemetery. yesipv@email.unc.edu 2. “They’re readers,” rather than TV watchers, dad states proudly. You can do that here. (919) 966-2613 “I didn’t know what the next few years would be like so I wanted a Christ-centered education. Still an Army officer (who speaks German, Russian and a smattering of Georgian), he and only a dozen others in the program will be posted in strategic locations worldwide. They study the Bible and memorize favorite verses. “I think they’re going to be just fine.”. Phil’s grandfather fought in World War II; his father served in Vietnam and met his mother while on leave. I selected UNC-Public Policy based on the faculty, curriculum and the alumni that came before me. This file contains additional information, probably added from the digital camera or scanner used to create or digitize it. Fort Bragg Garrison Commander Col. Phillip D. Sounia. The children were aware of the illness. The greatest difference between civilian and military life is in communicating with those around you. Nanny Tori was a rock, a cornerstone, and still is, Phil says. Phil manages breakfast and lunch; he or Tori prepares dinner. Soon holds a photo of his late wife, Genevieve. English: U.S. Army Lt. Col. Phillip Sounia, second from right, the commander of the 3rd Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, and Indian Army Maj. Arvind Singh, right, a company commander with the 50th Parachute Brigade, lead Indian and U.S. paratroopers toward an aircraft that will be used for an airborne operation in support of a field training exercise at Fort Bragg, N.C., May 11, 2013, during exercise Yudh … Box 58, Southern Pines, NC 28388 Phil Sounia with his daughters Ava, 9, and Elise, 6. They know that Jesus is here for them, not just me.”. Most of all, they want to spend time with you.”, Phil sought counseling on how to respond better to the girls’ needs. Please purchase a subscription to continue reading. This Image was released by the United States Army with the ID 130511-A-DK678-011 (next). Phil, 45, has not ruled out marrying again. As a print subscriber , you also receive unlimited digital access. Tuesday briefing: Fort Bragg's garrison commander relieved of duty If the file has been modified from its original state, some details may not fully reflect the modified file. Then, a tank unit at Fort Hood, Ranger School and deployments to Korea, Kuwait and Bosnia — finally Germany. COL. Scott Pence Fort Bragg Garrison Commander. I also wish I had been more aware of the complimentary programs at UNC throughout the breaks and during summer. The following pages on the English Wikipedia use this file (pages on other projects are not listed): (2,100 × 1,400 pixels, file size: 853 KB, MIME type: Commons is a freely licensed media file repository. Please log in or create a new account to access these articles, or subscribe today and support local community journalism. Please read our TERMS OF USE and our PRIVACY POLICY. “Daddy’s steak is soooo good it tastes like hamburgers!” Elise exclaims. “Duty to country was important, that America really matters,” Phil begins. “My girls are all that matter,” he says. 910-692-7271 Fax:910-692-9382, $5.35 He is currently in the third year of the doctoral program in Public Policy – Global Issues. Daddy’s Girls: Single parent soldiers on…, Just Mercy Ecumenical Community Book Read, Self Defense and Human Trafficking Educational Seminar. Genevieve noticed a problem after breast-feeding Elise. Meanwhile, back on the homefront, Phil faced a steep learning curve.